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3Somer
A count of what reviewers wrote, not a finding about the company.
3Somer is an alternative lifestyle dating and social app designed for open-minded singles and couples interested in exploring connections together. Whether you’re part of a couple looking to meet someone new or a single person open to meeting couples, you’ll find a welcoming community here. 3Somer brings together people who value trust, respect, and clear communication when exploring unique relationship dynamics. Key Features: Smart Match: Get matched with people who are looking for the same kind of connection as you. Search: Set your preferences and discover like-minded members in your local area or worldwide. Join 3Somer today and meet people who share your vibe — whether you’re curious, experienced, or just exploring. Subscription Information: ● 1 month premium membership: $15.49 ● 3 months premium membership: $34.99 ● 6 months premium membership: $65.99 ● 1 year premium membership: $99.99 ● Payment will be charged to your iTunes Account at confirmation of purchase ● Your subscription will automatically renew itself, unless auto-renewal is turned off at least 24 hours before the end of the current period. ● Your account will be charged for renewal within 24 hours prior to the end of the current period. ● You can manage your subscription and turn off auto-renewal by going to your Account settings in the iTunes Store. ● You cannot cancel the current subscription during the active subscription period. ● Privacy Policy: https://www.3somer.app/privacy-policy/ ● Service Agreement: https://www.3somer.app/terms-of-use/ ● 3Somer is only for people who are 18+.
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Fake profiles or bots
Like most appsAbout 1 in 4 unhappy reviewers mention fake profiles or bots
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Like most appsCanceling
More than mostCouldn't meet
More than mostTopics raised across 426 reviews
1-3 stars4-5 starsOne review often raises more than one topic, so the percentages don't add up to 100%.
Percentages are out of 284 reviews rated 4-5 stars, and 129 rated 1-3 stars that say what went wrong.
Typical app is the median across apps with 30 or more reviews in the same star range on the same store. Unhappy reviews are rated 1–3 stars and say what went wrong. Happy reviews are rated 4–5 stars.
US storefront · Oct 2018 to Sep 2026
This is a count of what reviewers wrote, not a finding about the company.
Store average: 4.5, which also counts ratings with no written review
All members that this app tries to connect you with are too far away. No matches are local. If I’m in lower Florida, why are all the match results are in Wyoming, California, Washington or at best, Te...
I saw your picture on it looked really beautiful and I’m very impressed
Love the app but it’s expensive
Most everyone is not real. This app is garbage
Not many girls in surrounding area
No one is on here. No one is checking their app. The hallways are empty. It’s all bots.
Every profile picture looks like it was screenshot and taken from some random person. So far every person I’ve communicated with has asked me for money. There is no substance to this app. It’s a scam....
I’ve paid 3x because the app tells me my payment is approved for all privileges the app offers. But any time I try to see locals or people who have liked my profile, it tells me to upgrade. Feels very...
Been on this site for over 3 weeks, same 5 people show up on the local search, most of which with no photos or bio. Random likes from outside what we selected. Compete waste of time. Best case scenari...
This app is terrible. It’s cumbersome use even though you pick the type of people that you want to search for it forces you to look at everyone and allows everyone to look for you. It’s awful. Don’t b...
I was charged one month premium but didn’t have access to see who likes me.
So many lovely Features and proper App Navigation. Loving it ☺️☺️
Poorly designed in my option. Not user friendly. No key to tell you how to do anything, limit search criteria or location.
I need a refund,this app is not working for me
Waste of time and money do not download this fake app nothing is free here even you can’t see who’s matching with you what shame 🤮
Buttons often don’t work. Nothing but creeps.
App shows same profiles over and over again even if you reject them and they don’t fit your desires as set in initial sign up. You ene up scrolling over and over again thru same profiles.
I can’t even speak to anyone without paying for subscription
Won't let you see, message, or connect in any way without paying for the premium subscription
Super confusing app. Looks like 3 ways to look at people, there’s a profile and a feed? Can’t limit search to 1 gender or couples. Can’t limit search to local, mostly seeing people 300 miles away or ...
Problems: 1. No way to set distance limits. 2. Cannot limit to your interests. I have set and saved my interests to couples and females over and over, but it doesn’t stick. Keep getting likes ...
I’ll update my review when I’ve given it more time to be fair and balanced.
I’ve repeatedly put in that we’re interested in females and it shows nothing but guys and couples. Worst app I’ve used so far. Feeld has its issues but at least it’s showing women.
Needs to get more active members.
This site is a waste of time. There are not enough members and the functionality is awful. The site doesn’t explain its jargon and it’s a bad experience. Find a better app before giving app any money.
Is exciting and real
Overall horrible interface that is unintuitive and clunky, typos built into the system, and no genders beyond m/f
This app is really bad. I would not download it and most definitely don’t pay for it. This app is really trash.
Full of fake accounts, you will never actually talk to someone on this app. They just want you to pay for their subscription. And even then you’ll never talk to anyone.
But I like the app, it gives you people with similar interests.
What happened to you helps the next person decide. A line or two is fine.
Plan prices
Plans cost $15.49 a month, $34.99 for three months, $65.99 for six or $99.99 a year; three months is preselected.
The screen says you must turn off renewal at least 24 hours before the period ends.
Checked on iPhone, US App Store · Sep 2026
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